Transmission from The Great Mother Presence as Maria Christina Owl
Great Mother Speaks::
Many of you believe that being a Hero or Savior is noble, yet if you are still reacting to the world from this identity, then you are still very much entrenched in the Trauma Triangle.
The Savior or Hero has two main shadow behaviors:
1. She takes on responsibility for clearing other's karma, to relieve their suffering. This often results in the savior becoming ill or imbalanced in some way, as they try to metabolize the spiritual lessons of others.
2. She is addicted to being good and noble, therefore glorifying only one expression of the psyche, creating a narrow human experience. Often the savior judges others for not being saviors too - this shadow aspect is Arrogance.
The Savior needs Victims to save, and this is her attachment/addiction. If she isn't saving people, she feels worthless. Saving people gives her an important place in society - according to her - so even if she's not valued outrightly by society, she may be self-righteous in her viewpoint.
The Savior needs to have a nemesis. This is also an attachment/addiction. She will always be pointing a finger at someone who is identified as a Perpetrator. To maintain her savior role, and thus glorified position in society, the savior must "win" or "conquer" the Perpetrator. Otherwise, if the Perpetrator triumphs over her, the savior will dissolve in low self-worth, and the Victim Consciousness will take her over.
The Savior Consciousness within you cannot perceive any other reality than this. She must save victims and triumph over perpetrators, otherwise she doesn't exist. If the Savior identity is one of your main Masks, then to become self-aware and hold intention to step outside of the Trauma Triangle and these behaviors, would elicit major resistance from the Savior consciousness.
So how does one liberate from the Trauma Triangle while also not creating resistance to the point of inner-personalities becoming saboteurs?
Ultimately your inner-personalities within the Trauma Triangle, the Savior, the Victim and the Perpetrator, must be integrated fully into the whole of your heart, mind and soul. Your Higher Self exists in a higher vibrational reality than these personalities, yet also generates within her the "nectar" that satiates these personalities.
When you meditate and align fully with your Higher Self, this is the time to journey to meet each personality.
Greet them with respect. Thank them.
Ask them three questions:
1. What do you want?
2. What do you need?
3. How will you feel when this need is met?
And then the Higher Self becomes the nectar, literally BECOMES the nectar of the specific feeling the inner-personality desires to feel. This nectar is then offered unconditionally to the inner-personality to "drink", "eat", bath in... etc..., from the very body of the Higher Self. The Higher Self is renewed and strengthened by this unconditional service and love, not depleted.
Once you begin to live (in your consciousness) outside of the Trauma Triangle on a daily basis, this is when your REAL LIFE truly begins!
This is when you begin to feel your true power, energy and genius awaken within you.
This is when you open to perceive the world as a place of opportunity, possibility, creativity and inspiration.
There is no other work more worthy to put your time into.
My Love Surround You and Give You Courage!
The Great Mother Presence
GREAT MOTHER SPEAKS :
Some of you desire to know more steps to take to liberate you from the Trauma Triangle. Let me continue to speak in terms of the Savior identity:
The resolution comes in a Paradox, as it should, because it is outside of the density consciousness that sees only in duality.
To release yourself from being "run" by your savior consciousness, you actually have to be More Selfish.
Yes! More Selfish!
Let me give you an example:
** If I am a healer and I have many clients depending on me, and I feel responsible for finding them solutions to their suffering - physically, mentally, emotionally, psychologically, and spiritually... then I am consumed daily with that stress, anxiety, focus and fear of failing them.
** My view of my clients is skewed, because I am only seeing victims, rather than Evolving Intelligent Souls.
** When I tune into my energy field, I likely see the "density patterns" of my clients hooking into my own aura, chakras and tissues. I can clear them, but they come back, because I haven't transformed my Core Belief that I am their only hope to get well.
** To shift this erroneous reality, I will need to choose my own health over that of my clients. This can be very challenging for the Savior Consciousness to understand, because the Savior exists from saving others and always knowing Who Needs Saving at any given moment (family, friends, teachers, clients, cultures, planet).
** For me to unhook and liberate myself truly, I will need to LET GO of feeling responsible for the well being of others. I will need to be SELFISH!
** As I meditate, I see all the people I serve, all my close friends and family and everyone on the planet moving out of my energy field and into their own. I see that these beings are actually on THEIR OWN EVOLUTIONARY JOURNEY with wonderful lessons to learn. I see that I have been stealing their karma and lessons from them in my arrogance as a savior. I see that this makes me unhealthy and lost. I see that when I set everyone free, I BECOME FREE!
** Now I can look at these people and clients and know that I am not responsible for their growth or ascension into their own higher selves. This is their journey and theirs alone. I am here to guide, reflect, give my skills and gifts and witness them do their own integration and growth. I get to celebrate that THEY ARE SETTING THEMSELVES FREE!
** Now, I am a more effective, present, awake, and wise healer than before!
** Now.. I am not a savior. Now, I am a human being flowing in the River of Life and connected within the Sacred Web of Life. Giving and Receiving. Attracting and Repulsing. I am living in accordance with Universal (Sacred) Law.
So, please read this and take it to heart. Apply it to your own life and consider in what ways you are now ready to liberate yourself.
Each of you CAN BE a clear vessel in this lifetime if you choose to be and if you do the work/play to make this happen.
Dissolve your erroneous beliefs that are embedded in the Trauma Triangle. Discover who you truly are, for you are Limitless!
Know that I surround you always in Love!
The Great Mother Presence
Maria Owl Gutierrez